Over the years, there have been times when I’ve found God initiating further discovery on how He sees women (theological, cultural and practical issues etc). Once again I’m re-visiting the ‘arena’ as I’ve been delving through the Scriptures again, and seeing beautiful things with new eyes. Sometimes God has to over-emphasise things for me to ‘get it’. So I warn you that I might be in that frame of mind.
You see, I’m convinced that my ‘neighbourhood’ where I live and work, in all of it’s fractured relationships, need to see both men and women reach their full potential. I’m convinced that we need to keep pursuing and extending our views of living in God’s fullest expression of being human.
There’s such a gratefulness to the many other voices have also spoken into that journey. I have recently been quite encouraged by the perspective that comes through voices like the Sophia network. I like this forum because it is bringing a healthy addition to the dialogue.
This article brings some perspectives highlighting how much interpretation of ‘life’ still seems primarily filtered through male eyes. This is not to undermine the rich input that we receive regularly from men who are serving God this way. I just want us to keep seeking balance. (For example, I have taught in schools where there were so many females on staff that we had to seek out healthy balance in opportunities for males.) I’ve been aware of some of the ‘messages’ that are often unconsciously carried when there’s not that balance.
Here’s another current example from one of our classroom discussions for Essentials Blue, we are looking at what it means to be fully human, to glorify God by being fully alive. One girl’s discussion post spoke of us being made in the image of God. She was challenged by the belief that God made females in ‘His’ image. We always refer to Him in the language of the male, and she was acknowledging it makes her feel at times, that God is a bit removed from where she is at as a female. She was verbalising much of what this article expands as it addresses questions about the message females receive about their value and affirmation.
I am fortunate to be part of a staff team, and a movement of churches who honour women and offers freedom for all to express their gifts. Yet, there are also times when I long for more balance in the ‘voices’. It still seems, as much as we try, that a great deal of the mainstream of interpretation is coming through male perspective.
For example, next week we have a pastors conference for the Aussie Vineyard movement. I wonder if there’ll be signs of the strong, healthy partnership that God created between men and women revealed fully – reflected in our churches, our families, our businesses, our schools, and in every area of life. I hope so.
Practially what might that look like?
What do you think about this list below?
So what does that partnership look like in practice? It will be different for each person, but here are some suggestions for you to think about:
- challenging stereotypes, sexist attitudes, degrading humour and exclusive language that damage women and/or men when you encounter it in your church, your work and your relationships.
- if women are under-represented then proactively looking for gifted women when you need someone to speak, train, lead, write about, write for you, use as an illustration, preach about and so on, instead of immediately opting for the more obvious male candidates. At the same time, working to avoid any kind of tokenism or setting people up to fail.
- creating opportunities for women to learn, to be stretched, to do new things so that they grow in skills and confidence and the body of Christ is enriched – even if that means taking some risks.
- taking responsibility for your own integrity and accountability so that working relationships with the opposite sex are an opportunity for growth and not a threat to be avoided.
- recognising the wonderful and creative diversity that exists within both sexes, allowing people to be who God calls them to be and not expecting them to fit into neatly defined boxes.
- recognising the impact that the organisation of private life has on the public sphere, and, where appropriate, sharing domestic duties with the people that you live with.
- working towards an appropriate mix of men and women actively involved in any project that you participate in, or in any network that you belong to.
- consider using an inclusive language version of the Bible for your own study and in public contexts, and making sure worship songs and liturgy don’t exclude.
- wrestling with theology and understanding of biblical texts that relate to gender to discover what they say to us as men and women today.
- helping young men and young women to relate healthily to each other, realising that they are brothers and sisters in Christ rather than aliens from another planet.
HT
Because You Are
10 Jun 2009 Comments Off on Because You Are
by Di in Dan Wilt, Essentials Online Course, Recent Comments
Because You Are
This is a re-post of a project I did for Essentials Blue online worship course. Should the above YouTube link not work for the video go directly here to view it.
I have been really challenged about how word-based our expressions of worship can be. I have been very aware of some people in our community who are unable to read well, and have been considering how to find ways to engage their different options for expression. There’s also been a challenge for me personally, as someone who loves words…to live with restraint at times. This piece also symbolizes my personal reminder and pursuit to live in simplicity and restraint.
I’m also a first timer in using media like this, so forgive me in it’s clumsiness!
Themes: God as Creator, Humans as Sub-Creators; Creation Theology; God’s redemptive story.
Lyrics: because-you-are
Credits:
1. Music and Lyrics by Because You Are, Simon Carter. Simon is one of the worship leaders at Soul Survivor Melbourne, so if you’re interested in checking out more of his music go here.
2. Epilogue The Prayer of the Trinity by Tom Wright
(Originally published in New Tasks for a Renewed Church, 1992, London: Hodder. Also published as Bringing the Church to the World, 1992, Bethany House, U.S.A., 209-15.)
3. Emerging Grace Posters (HT to Grace)